Saturday, October 30, 2010

Practice leads to perfect

So I'm still doing some experimenting with my hair. I like the wash-n-go look but with fall here and wanting my hair to grow back out, I will need to switch it up soon. As soon as I figure it out, I'll let you guys know. This is what I did last weekend...

1)First, my hair was feeling a little dry so I pre-poo'd with coconut oil. (I basically sprayed my hair damp w/ water and then applied coconut oil. Sat under dryer w/plastic cap for about 10 mins.

2)I rinsed, then washed w/ Giovanni's 50/50 shampoo(review coming soon!)

3)Deep conditioned under dryer for about 20 mins. w/ Taliah Waajid Enhancing Herbal Conditioner

4)Applied Kinky Curly Knot Today as leave-in

5)Re-wet hair w/ spray bottle and put in my beloved Kinky Curly Curling Custard. Some pics below..


                                                        Wet Hair







                                                         Dry Hair...
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Tuesday, October 26, 2010

WOTD

pleasure principle- n. The tendency to reduce pain and seek immediate gratification of instinctual needs.

ex.Because my habit to saturate myself with things that I love sometimes backfires, I have a tendency to indulge in the pleasure principle.

Monday, October 25, 2010

Music Mondays (whats in my rotation)

Wants World WomenDwele/Wants,World, Women


Distant RelativesNas ft. Damien Marley/Distant Relatives


Teflon DonRick Ross/Teflon Don


SunstormZo!/Sunstorm

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Music Mondays

Groove TheoryGroove Theory/Groove Theory(yeah,this album used to be my joint)

Sir Lucious Left Foot... The Son of Chico DustyBig Boi/Sir Lucious Left Foot...The Son of Chico Dusty

SecretoEzel/Secreto

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Which Favors Will You Deny?

I have a cousin who is an evangelist and she's awesome.We were sitting having a conversation one day a couple of years back and I began to cry because basically, she told me that I wasn't following my true purpose. She saw that God had other plans in store for me and I was running from them. Trying to do the politically correct thing. Whenever people would ask me "what are you up to now?", I would always give the politically correct answer, afraid of their reaction to what I really wanted to say. I would try so hard to deny myself, I even went so far as to try and make myself believe I didn't have the gifts I did. I just wanted to be regular. I didn't want to be special. I was trying to put out my own light! Why do we do that to ourselves? And it didn't even matter what I did because those desires to follow my dreams never went away and would always come creeping back. In fact, I have been having these visions for my life since I was about five years old! I would be blessed with so many gifts and given so many opportunities that I didn't even ask for or seek out, they just came. The way that you can tell the difference between a desire that God has placed in your heart and just wishful dreaming is it never goes away...When you finally decide to follow your God-given dreams, there are no limits to where they will take you.

This is one of my favorite quotes from Marianne Williamson. I have to remind myself of this constantly..
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”






Monday, October 11, 2010

Music Mondays

Hope She Cheats On You (With A Basketball Player)Marsha Ambrosius/Hope She Cheats on You
AuthenticityForeign Exchange/Authenticity
Walking on a DreamEmpire of the Sun/Walking On A Dream

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Music Mondays

It Takes a Thief THIEVERY CORPORATION/IT TAKES A THIEF

Blu Transition CONYA DOSS/BLU TRANSITION

Broke Up About You JULIE DEXTER/BROKE UP ABOUT YOU

Airtight's Revenge BILAL/ AIRTIGHT'S REVENGE